Annnnd it's gone really well so far to the extent that I'm probably gonna start releasing it into the wild (for people to not see for organic reasons vs me just never talking about it)

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went ahead and bit the bullet and started revising a site of mine for a hosted platform, basically because I wound up having a real bitch of a time deploying shareable stuff; it's taken me a while but I'm at near full feature parity and deployments are easier... yay? Still means I wasn't able to homebrew it from scratch myself

Any of those questions, if you dive deep, can be horrific and existentially dreadful to write about. Violence is easier and much less effort. But, it's kind of lame and about as realistic as a foam monster covered in red-dyed corn syrup jumping out of the shadows.

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"What if I fail them when they need me most? What if I can't be there in an emergency? What if someone takes advantage of them? Leads them astray? How can I make sure they know right from wrong? Do I know right from wrong? What if they need independence and I can't let them go?"

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The ways you can go wrong include accidental harm, yes; but to think that's the worst outcome is mundane and naive.

You can do a lot wrong and it's a continual balancing act. You have to put your mind, heart, and body into everything in a way these young authors can't fathom.

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What makes it worse is that it clearly comes from a place of a younger author, or someone with no kids or dependents of their own.

Why is it so clear? Because being a steward for a small human is, in and of itself, full of fear and constant worry. That's the trick of the job.

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Ever read scary stories online? I used to, but over time I grew disenamored; every few stories would just be a "killing kids" or "toddlers dying" story. I saw a post recently where someone compared it to jump-scares. It is, it's a literary jump-scare: a cheap reaction play.

Some ActivityPub implementations / resources here, if anyone is curious what else this fed node can interact with:

@miasmicfungus @Jerichovilar lol, thanks - I've been explaining it to my wife for a bit today. She doesn't take my ranting shit so I had practice

@Jerichovilar @miasmicfungus It's not invite only unless one of us sets it to that, but yeah. It's kind of a twitter / email hybrid. Twitter in that it's messages and micro blog posts, email in that we can interact with lots of other mastodons / peertubes with the "handle@server" bit.

@miasmicfungus So we can totally invite the whole crew on at any point. Make lists, whatever :)


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